Twin Flame

What is a Twin Flame?

Twin flames, also called twin souls, are literally the other half of our soul. We each have only one twin, and generally after being split the two went their separate ways, incarnating over and over to gather human experience before coming back together. Ideally, this happens in both of their last lifetimes on the planet so they can ascend together. So you probably haven’t had many lifetimes with your twin.

Each twin is a complete soul, not half a soul. It is their task to become more whole, balancing their female and male sides, and ideally become enlightened, before reuniting with their twin. This reunion is of two complete and whole beings. All other relationships through all our lives could be said to be “practice” for the twin, the ultimate relationship.

What is a Soulmate?

Soulmates are our soul family, the ones we do have many lifetimes and experiences with, who help us grow and evolve, create and dissipate karma. According to ancient wisdom, when the soul is “born” or descended from Source, it is created in a group. The souls in this group are our soulmates, ones who are very like us in frequency makeup. Then each of these souls is split into two, creating the twins.

A soulmate is someone you are close to at a soul level, and with whom you have had many shared experiences in different lifetimes, in various kinds of relationships — siblings, parent-child, best friend, as well as romantic relationships. There is a deep love for each other, and a spiritual bond that sets them apart from the superficiality of most other people in your life. Conversations are generally deep, about personal growth and service to make the world a better place. We can have many soulmates in our lives, and they come to us to help us grow spiritually.

Have I Met My Twin?

Twin Flame reunions are the most fulfilling relationships we can enter into as humans, on all levels. However, twin flame couples have been extremely rare on the planet, and for good reasons, which will be described later. Despite this, we are finding that more and more twins are finding each other now, because of the acceleration of spiritual transformation and opportunities for soul evolution we are all experiencing. People are evolving and learning and healing at such a fast rate that they are getting ready for their twins faster. What used to take lifetimes to learn and heal, people are now going through in years or even months. This is the astounding level of acceleration we and the planet are going through.

When twins get together, it is for some kind of spiritual service work. This is their primary reason for finding each other, because through their union a huge birthing of creative energy is released, to be used for their mission together. More and more twins are attempting to get together now to help the planet and humanity make a big shift forward in consciousness.

However, many of these attempts at reunion are unsuccessful because the individual people are not quite ready for the intensity of a twin flame union. It is more intense than any other union, and this intensity is at a soul level, not as much in the physical or even emotional bodies. This doesn’t mean that there isn’t a good attraction at those levels as well, but the strongest attraction is of spirit. This is one of the distinguishing characteristics of a twin soul. Many people think they have met their twin because the attraction is so intense, but it is a karmic attraction, one of need or bodily desire rather than the Divine Love of twins.

Your chance of meeting and staying with your twin depends on how evolved your soul is, and how much of your baggage from this and past lives you have cleared. The biggest reason twins have to separate after coming together is their individual emotional baggage. Because in the presence of your twin, there can be nothing between you, nothing blocking your closeness. This means that everything comes up for healing that you haven’t previously healed. Everything!

When twins reunite, both of them experience an acceleration of their spiritual growth and awakening. They get on the fast track of learning about esoteric wisdom and experiencing other states of consciousness. They usually haven’t been together all that often during their series of lives on the planet, and so their backgrounds may be different. Yet, there is a closeness and similarities of spirit that are almost uncanny, noticed in many ways, such as looking back at yourself when you look at your mate, and a remembering of the distant past when you first split up. Guidance is strong with these relationships, and usually one or both have a good channel for communication with Spirit. Their connection is telepathic, and hugging each other is like coming home for nourishment.

Twin Flame Signs

1. Instant Recognition

You meet eyes with your twin flame for the first time and feel that you recognise them in a deep way despite never having seen them before.  Even their voice or laugh may sound familiar.

2. Love at First Sight

After meeting and perhaps from the outset you both feel a very powerful and strong bond that you have never felt before with anyone. This can be physical but also goes beyond that, a love to the very core of the other.

3. Unusual Meeting

Twin flames tend to report that they met under strange and unusual circumstances or coincidences, perhaps both doing something you would not normally do.

4. Separated yet together

Once together, the two of you become inseparable and when you are separated for any extended amount of time, you both feel lonely and empty, yet in another way you feel some kind of cord linking you telepathically or at least empathetically (where you are in tune with each other’s emotions.)

5. I know what you are thinking!

Twin flames will frequently find that they know what the other is thinking, even sometimes when far apart from each other.  A look between you can communicate so much even though you don’t really know how it works.

6. Spiritual Awakening

This one of the more common twin flame signs. You begin to notice new things about yourself and the world around you, and think about life in a new more positive way.

7. A Divine Purpose?

Often twin souls find that together they have a strong desire to go and help other people in a meaningful way, usually as a team.

8. You can say anything to each other

Similar to soulmates, another of the twin flame signs is that you will find you can talk together for hours and houses, but particularly with twin flames there are no communication barriers between you and the relationship feels totally upfront and open. You feel as if the level of friendship and intimacy is unlike anything you have ever experienced.

9. Sexuality – ooh that’s hot!

Not only is your sex good and passionate (as it would hopefully be with a soulmate) but also you feel that that having sex with each other is a sacred, almost religious act that expresses the amazing love you feel for each other, in a way you never knew before.

10. Completeness (but not a clone!)

Finally more than ever before in your life, you feel a sense of completeness that goes beyond what you ever thought possible.  You grow closer and closer, becoming more and more like a whole, yet still keep your individual identities.

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22 thoughts on “Twin Flame

  1. I doubt it though in the beginning it was a Revelation. 1st time was ok meeting her, 2nd time in bed all Physical Reality and time fell away as we looked in each others eyes in Eternity, a wonderful experience and that happened only once. Apart recently I have accepted being alone and even moving on from her at some stage? For the moment Asexual. Shes coming back in a few months and my peace will be destroyed, my ease and soundness of feeling are disturbed with the prospect of getting back with her again. My body didnt lie when I felt I shouldnt be getting involved with her before our 2nd meetin then the magic happened is why I stuck with her, though barely seeing her. Now she is gone I want to keep it that way. So I doubt and I think it was a Catalyst, she is special inside but maybe we’ll meet again in the next life, because I havent the Balls to, its not a nice feeling of losing all control you have mustered up in your life and there is only 1 person who can take it all away, plans, stability. Wreck it wreck me. Dont feel its meant to be, and that feels right to know, not now anyway


    1. I know eactly what you are talking about.
      I am going trough the same.
      But trust that feeling. It will work out. Maybe not today or tomorrow. It will be worth it.
      You can try everything between and you will feel it is never enough. Something is missing.
      I realized completly what is going on between me and my twin just a few days ago. And after understanding it i am calm. I can go on.
      And we run around each other for 23 years now.
      We finally tried to be together last year and after about 3 month everything crashed totally. It was like hell and war at the same time then for month. Now there is no contact at all and quite but i know we will find us again
      Find your own way


  2. after years of losing hope that I’ll ever find my twin we finally met. people look at us and are quick to judge because from the moment we locked eyes(seeing our souls before our physical selves) we have been inseperable. we both are geminis, share the same middle names and stories of our pasts. the sign of the gemini is the twin, which by looking further into it doesn’t mean twins as in siblings, but it means twins as in your twin flame. since we’ve been together we’ve been discovering and applying the truth that we are all connected. It’s a truly beautiful experience. 🙂


  3. Hi It was nice to read your blog..I have found my TF just recently.I really haven’t got any idea of what twin flame is until I saw this famous man on TV I am never a fan of him though.And his not even my type but I was shock with what I have felt the moment hearing his voice and noticed that I was really attracted to him that I can’t even sleep at nights co’z I am thinking of why I am that attracted to this person knowing that he is not my type of guy.Then I started to google him up.Shocks! It seems reading his profile and facts about him was like describing myself everything synchronized from my birthday to his birthday are all related to both of us. And I started to do some research and I bump over the internet about all this Twin Flame thing.From then I begin to have what they call as spiritual awakening and felt all the magic around me.Discovered all this amazing signs and numbers most specifically 11:11 , 222 and 111 and some other numbers like his birthday and mine.Until now I am still in denial stage that maybe all this was just a coincidence but there would not be a day that I am not bumping with all these signs and synchronicities.I felt so crazy with all these like I felt the need of someone to share about this but I am also afraid that they might think I am crazy and no one will believe about all these. The last time also checked about him is that in an interview he told that He is dreaming about this girl of his fate and He knows one day he will meet her in that specific place and once he will run unto this person without any doubt He will confess right away. Do you think what I am experiencing right now is true? I have all this intuition and visualization that we will gonna be together but the most difficult part is that I am in a relationship and I have two kids that’s why It’s so wierd experiencing all of these.In the first place I have never wish about this or asked God about this, though I maybe in a worst situation right now and that my relationship is not working anymore but I am still not believing I will break this for that reason that he is my twin flame. everything have changed,about Me my plans, my prospectives, and my behavior..Could you please share something? Is what I am feeling right? Am I in a twin flame connection? I also discovered that I have this newly found gift that I can sense if something will happen or sense someone. I hope you will not find me crazy but thank you for reading I hope you could share something regarding my situation because this is not really making comfortable..Thanks


    1. Dear Maya,

      Each person have their won different experiences. And only yourself who can tell what it was and what it is. Just take a moment in silent, get into your self and you will find the answer you seek. No one can give you answer, you know the best. Listen to your heart. And she will tell you what to do. Don’t ever make decision while you thinking too much. Whatever it is just enjoy the moment, enjoy the feeling. And you are not crazy, you feel what you feel. Enjoy it and don’t judge it. Just aware of it. I know some experiences might not comfortable for you, I went through some uncomfortable moment also. All I can do just let it be. Be aware of it and surrender. It will make the process faster. I hope you’ll find your answer within …. with love. Ina


  4. Can your twin flame be someone you went to school with? I noticed a strange familiarity between me and him when I was 14 I just didn’t know what it was. He sat across from me in science class and we would always end up looking in each other’s eyes. That year my brother told me he told him I had beautiful eyes. The next year my best friend became friends with him and she left my life. She felt closer than a sister to me and it was painful when she suddenly left. I remember falling into depression after that. He took away a person I could literally imagine living the rest of my life with. I was mad at all the other people she became friends with but I found that I could not be mad at him and he’s the reason I’ve been alone since middle school. My little brother was friends with his brother for years and I never knew they were related. He’s also the reason I found out I was asexual too. In high school he came out as gay and it opened up my world because before then I didn’t agree with homosexuality. After he came out I started researching sexuality on the computer and found asexuality along with different gender identities and it truly shook up my world and turned it upside down. It made me realize the body is just a shell for the soul it doesn’t define it. I found that even though I am female my soul has always felt more masculine. Now in college I’m minoring in gender studies. When he took me home for winter break he told me that even though he’s male he acts more feminine. I also learned in high school he suffered from mild depression and anxiety. Was he feeling my sadness? It would have been the same time I was depressed and anxious. I feel like we’ve always pushed each other in the right direction even though neither of us did it purposely. I use to write stories all the time and when I go back to them I realize I’m describing the person I feel is missing in my life and I also noticed I named all these characters with names similar to his. I remember preying to god to let my characters be real because I felt like they were real because I feel to much of a connection to them to not be real. I always described there eyes in great detail. Now I feel like there’s no reason to beg god to make them real anymore. I just feel with how much he’s changed my life there has to be some sort of strong connection there. What confuses me the most though is I have an identical twin sister here too and I’ve always been told your twin is your soulmate does that mean he can’t be my twin flame? She doesn’t seem to feel the same connection. It’s just me seeing the repeating numbers, 11’s, feeling aches and pains, feeling warm sensations in my chest, sleep paralysis, strange dreams including an out of body dream,and having the sensation of having people watch me when I go to bed. I just wish I knew the answer.


    1. The one that can feel the real connection to our soulmate or twinflame is our self. It could be anyone in our life. When you realize it you will know who. Actually you change your life change by accepting the good things in your life, good people. They only be who they are and be there … but when you resonate with someone or something positive it will bring you into positive direction also. So enjoy your moment with him. 🙂 And you will get the answer when you are ready. It will come to you. Just be aware and observe all sensations and feelings.


  5. I met my twin flame 4 years ago. I didn’t know anything about twin flames when we met. We had an instant connection of love, respect and understanding. We had similarities and coincidences in our background but came from opposite sides of the country (east coast/west coast). We met one night on a dance floor. By chance, we both went out that night and a friend said, “hey go dance with him, he is he only guy that can keep up with you”. We became inseparable from that time forward. Sexuality and physical love were life changing experiences. Not everything was perfect and we had many obstacles in our way that would, under normal circumstances, keep us apart. However, doors always seemed to open for us and we have lived a lifetime together in 4 short years. Our love was the deepest I had ever experienced. We had the greatest time of our lives when we were together. Doing nothing together was better than any day of my life thus far. We have had exactly 3 arguments since we met. One was knock down drag out. But neither of us could leave. Neither of us cared about the ego connected with the issues. Our love was all that mattered, Our connection and knowing of each others hearts trumped any topics of anger, jealousy or disagreement. We both feel as if we have grown up together (mind you we are both in our 50’s) Our experiences together have convinced us both that we were put together for a reason. We are in love unconditionally. We have lived a lifetime together in less than 4 years. At about our 3 1/2 year. We both realized that we needed to get some distance between us. We each had issues to resolve in our lives that needed to be addressed without the influence of each others love and support. Without a major argument or incident, just a crying hug and some kisses, we split up with the agreement that we should stay out of contact for 2 months. We both ran. In short time, we couldn’t do it. It was almost as terrible as experiencing a death. We separately cried, anguished, searched for answers and thought life was not worth living. Neither of knew how terrible it was for each of individually. We both knew we had to stay apart because we each had growing and experiences to do without the other. I then stumbled upon Twin Flame Phenomena.
    One day, I reached out to him and told him the pain was to much to bare. He was experiencing the same pain as was I. We have reestablished our connection but have not returned to the inseparable couple we once were. Our love has grown exponentially. We continue to build our synchronicities as we walk down our separate paths. I work on connecting to him when I meditate and rest. It is no matter, because we are always connected. I pray that in time, our lives will once again be inseparable, but I am not sure if that is possible.
    We have come to learn that we both put this plan in place in our past life together. We take solace knowing that we both gave it thought once before, and we trust that the immeasurable love we have for each other will mean that we will each land on our feet. For now, we live our lives doing all we can to have only positive karmic interactions with all people.
    We stopped crying. We look forward to the 4th anniversary of our meeting, Leap Year, the 29th (2+9=11). I have never felt better about myself and who I am in the world than I do today. I have more spiritual trust in God than I ever did when I was a church leader throughout my life.
    I don’t really know much at all about the twin flame experience except what I find on the internet. Some of it is perplexing and contradictory. No matter, I see the synchronicities in my life, the incredible importance on remembering karma in all of my relationships, the importance of unconditional love and the fact that God, the spirits, the planet, or life’s energy has its own timeline for me. I will respect it and be resolute that all things are meant to be. I am a good person and I will land on my feet.
    My Twin Flame story…


  6. I hadn’t thought about twin souls because I didn’t even know if he liked me or thought about me as much as I do. But he mentioned it to me and I had to look it up and I guess I was the oblivous one this whole time. I can’t really describe the feeling. We met when I came over to watch a movie with his roommate(who I hadn’t chilled with in years) and he walked in on me in the bathroom(wasn’t doing anything thank God). I didn’t think much of it but I ended up falling asleep during the movie and staying the night. His roommate just left for work and I was with him and their other roommate. Even though I didn’t know him, he seemed like I had met him before. We were all just talking and he told me he liked me cuz I was smart(ultimate compliment for me from a man). Eventually we talked on fb, exchanged numbers, hung out a few times. But then he had to move away and I didn’t know why I was so sad because this all happened fairly quickly in the matter of a month or so. But even though he’s in another state, we still talk all the time. And he always comes to me when he needs advice. He also gives me advice when I need it. I don’t know, I feel like we’re different yet exactly the same. He can offer perspective I can’t see and vice versa. I careful and observant yet somehow outgoing.He’s slightly impulsive and highly adventurous yet somehow introverted. We take from each other what we need. I have an identical twin sister and best friend soul mate and I though there are things that I can tell him that I wouldn’t think about telling them. Sometimes our conversations become very, very intimate. I can feel him pull away from the intensity sometimes. He’s my runner unfortunately, even though he recognized the connection first. It says that we may be separated and then growth will happen at a fast rate on both parts that couldnt be more of the truth. He moved and then I got a new place, got a job, and started culinary school while he got new jobs and is working towards his degree. I know one day, we’ll be together but twin souls can’t love each other with baggage and he and I have enough, both just ending relationships before meeting. So I bide my time with a heavy heart and wait for when were both ready .


  7. I need to point something out here. The list is not at all accurate.
    I am a true twin flame and I’m going to tell you what REALLY happens when twins meet.
    When you come face to face (very important) and see each others eyes, your soul knows who the other person is, and goes into shock. My chakras activated instantly. I felt my third eyes electrical charge between my eyes.
    I also received a message (I’m a medium, but was not aware of it) telling me we have been brought together on purpose, I had just moved and it was the only reason I was where she was .
    I didn’t know what had happened, I knew it was a psychic experience and that I was not like other people. what followed was clairvoyance, and other psychic abitities that were scaring me until I woke up to what it was. I get told my future.
    I have seen spirits since I was young. who I am and what I can do are the key here.
    You need to have the ability to understand the connection. it is also no “love story” it is a testing time, painful. I am telepathic.

    If you can relate to what I have written, welcome to the “club” if you can not, please STOP using the phrase “twin flame” and you have no idea what you are talking about?
    I have the need to speak the truth, as websites with misinformation are everywhere on this subject, and If I can help someone who is REALLY going through what I am by mentioning the truth, then I will.

    Remember the key is “chakra activation and psychic abilities. it is common that people who go through this to be mediums.


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